Sanpixee The Alien: Energy
The main difference I see between only children and children who grew up with siblings is an extreme one. The concept of giving versus the concept of sharing. An only child would rather give than share, often not finding the merit in sharing and rather than confound oneself with how much is deemed acceptable to “share” – we would rather “give” thinking that “giving” would compensate for “sharing”. The world sees this as mean.
Only children do not find “sharing” rewarding – we prefer to think of the world in ‘yours vs. mine’ terms instead of the more socially acceptable ‘ours.’ In all my years, it is just in this past week that I had the most epiphanous epiphany of all epipanies ever epiphanied.
Energy cannot neither be created nor destroyed, only transferred from one entity to another. Only children locked in their world of ‘giving’ rather than ’sharing’ are at a disadvantage. Energy transfer only occurs in ‘giving’ or being ‘given to’. By just attaining for ourselves things which are ‘mine’ in order to preempt ever having to ask someone for what is ‘theirs’ (i.e. yours), hence trying to prevent ever having to be asked for what is ‘mine’. Only children hoard energy i.e. are bred to be selfish.
In hoarding energy, only children often turn down accepting from others, hence ‘being given to’ but when asked would rather ‘give’ wholly than ’share’. Sharing would have given the opportunity for the only child to take in some energy from another human, but in refusing it and giving they unknowingly give away some energy.
The point is they allow their energy level to be depleted as they are not allowing themselves to take in energy from other people, to be ‘given to’.
The concept of giving vs. the concept of sharing.