Sanpixee the Alien: Man-Pampering
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Love and Respect
Has your man ever washed your hair, shaved your legs or rubbed your feet? Has he ever massaged you back, cooked for you or washed the dishes after you have cooked? Has he ever noticed how drained you are, directs you to the couch, shuts off the light and rubs your head until you fall asleep with your head in his lap. Has he ever carried your tired body to the bathtub, draws you a bath and washes your body as if it were a prized diamond, as if it were the mustang he had saved up for 5 summers to buy as a teenager?
Does your man ever wordlessly guide you to walk on the inside away from the traffic when you both walk on the street? Is he able to tell you that you look like crap or an outfit combo does not work without offending you? Can you both appreciate how other women look without you feeling jealous or threatened? Does he know not to speak to you for a while after you get home from work and to just let you be?
For the women who think that these men do not exist o ye of little faith. I have found these men, and been able to benefit from their fruits. They are in fact all around. Women have been brainwashed into seeking the prepackaged man, the fairy tale propagated by Disney movies and the robot-women manufactured in the 1950’s. But oh boy, when you find a man like this … it is impossible to go back to mediocrity, unless you are passing time of course.
It is beautiful to find the man who inspires you to cook when you don’t feel like cooking, to dress-up when you usually don’t… the man who treats you like treasure without being too clingy or idolizing you. The man who acknowledges your flaws and faults but accepts the whole you as a package bundle.
This is the man who will get mad at you, but come back – who will show his love in his language. This is the man you will catch watching you – not leering – but watching, studying… who makes you blush just by saying your name. The man where you can both be in a room together, silent but comfortable – intimate.
Man-pampering is one of life’s greatest joys, to have your beauty – inner and outer beauty acknowedged with touch, caresses, silence and conversation – when you are touched out of an intermingling of admiration and lust. When his eyes give you a full body massage before his hands touch your skin – When you can be at work and still smell him in your hair. Mmmmmmm…..
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